Serving as a pastor for 36 years and remarrying this year makes me a little more sensitive to God’s gift to us of marriage. I have seen many couples approach their marriage with less than stellar reasons for joining together and I have witnessed to many couples forget what they were told on their wedding day marriage is all about.
Here is an article from The Federalist written by Mollie Hemmingway that offers some proof of what choices and actions before marriage can do to affect the relationship. Maybe what Hemmingway says will confirm what you have believed or it will open your eyes. It truly is important for all of us.